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Over the past five years, I’ve been really happy to see more and more guys take up the charge to trim, shave and sculpt their pubic area. Now, I’m not averse to hairy guys, but there is something that triggers my anal retentive gene when I have a dark haired guy over for some fun and, as he strips and pulls off his underwear, he’s got an almost laser straight treasure trail, a neatly trimmed pubic area (sometime even creatively trimmed can be even COOLER!), a shaved nut sac, and a completely hairless asshole. There’s just something very “neat and tidy” about the whole thing, and it’s a relief to know that you won’t be choking on an abundance of pubic hair during oral sex, nor will you accidentally yank out a hair (or dozen) that, for all intents and purposes, is in one of the most sensitive areas of the male body. Accidental denuding can be a rather painful mood killer, let me assure you.

I have two male friends that regularly practice “manscaping” themselves, though for completely different reasons. Ironically, they both have the same name, so for the sake of discretion and to protect the innocent and all that, let’s just call them “Mike #1″ and “Mike #2″, to make describing them easier. Mike #1 is a nice guy who is a unrepentant freeballer. I don’t think he even owns a pair of underwear. He’s mentioned to me that since he goes around sans underwear, he likes to keep his pubes trimmed and his balls shaved so that no hairs catch on his jeans or pants. He’s not at all hirsute, with a light dusting of chest hair, a nice treasure trail and only slightly hairy legs. He’s an AXE Body Spray man, and though I am usually not a fan of AXE Body Spray, I have to admit that it smells pretty good on him. I do think it’s amazing that, no matter how long he’s been working or whatever, when he gets up close and nekkid with me, he has practically no body odor to speak of and smells pretty much shower fresh. I’m rather envious of this, as I seem to exude a musky smell not 30 minutes after I finish scrubbing myself in the shower.

Mike #1 usually has his pubes trimmed into a neat triangle about 1/8″ above his cock, his balls are shaved completely hairless, but he stops the shaving at his taint and leaves the hair around his hole untouched. Mike#1 is a straight guy who I met while he was on hiatus with one of his girlfriends. He likes to come over, strip down, watch some porn, and “have his idol worshipped” (his cute euphemism for oral sex.)

I met Mike #2 a few years ago, right before Christmas. His girlfriend had left to go back home for the Christmas holiday, leaving Mike to his own devices, which, at the time, apparently included going online to look for some NSA oral sex and for someone he could have a “420 adventure.”  Not one to partake of 420 (I feel more and more like a teetotaler all the time, since I rarely drink and haven’t ever done any kind of recreation drugs.), I was, however, glad to help him out with the sex part.  I went over to his place and, after some small-talk and some good old-fashioned male techno-bonding over his brand new, pimped to the max computer (it was a really freakin’ nice computer!) we stripped and got down to it. Mike #2 is one of those guys who never work out and who smokes, but has a slim, perfectly toned body with the slight hint of a six-pack. He lowered his body hugging boxer briefs (I had him pegged as a fairly straightforward boxers man, so I was surprised to see him in boxer-briefs) and I was shocked to see almost no hair at all underneath. I remarked on it and he said that he had to keep himself shaved clean, that his girlfriend demanded it of him, because she liked to fuck his hairless ass with a strap-on.

Ever have one of those nights where you ask a simple question and the answer you get is so completely out of left field that you wonder if you are even playing on the same field? This was one of those night, for sure. Can you just imagine the look on my face?  It must have been priceless! It makes me think that I really need to work on my poker face, because I’m sure that Mike #2 would have told me that mine really sucked.

So, upon closer inspection of his privates, I noticed he’d left a little square of hair just above his dick (a Hitler pub-stache).  I mentioned that he did a good job on his balls and ass, as they were squeaky clean and utterly hairless.  He smiled and said that she’d helped him get the hair around his asshole with a razor. He was playing with my dick at the time and added that he was thinking that it might be hot to have anal sex, too, as he wanted to see what a real live dick felt like up there, since all he had been accustomed to up to that point was her strap-on.  So, being a generous friend, I helped him out with that request later on that evening, and then twice again during the Easter break and four more times during the summer holiday as well. He seemed to like the real thing quite a lot!

Now, as I delved more deeply into the realm of manscaping, I decided to take a minute out and see what the pros were doing, so I grabbed a stack of DVDs to see what the latest look was for guys in the wonderful world of porn.  I was surprised to see porn star punk boi Kris Slater modeling one of the more unique shaving creations, with a upside-down “Y” cut that began at his treasure trail and ended on either side of his dick. Lanky James Deen’s trims his short overall, and completely shaves for about 1/2″ on all sides of his rather long penis.  Beefcake boi Mikey Butters has a wide, trimmed triangle of hair around his cock, but has carefully shaven his balls, ass and taint (I don’t often recommend watching straight porn stars, but the guys I mention here are probably the cutest guys in XXX today.)

So really it’s a no-brainer.  Manscaping is something that every man, be he straight, gay, bisexual, or Republican should apply to their weekly personal hygiene regiment.  I mean, think of it like buying a house.  Wouldn’t you be more inclined to buy a house with a yard that is neat, tidy and well-trimmed?  Of course!

Not that you couldn’t just pick up a a gillette and get to work, but here’s some products that will help make your foray into manscaping easy and fun:

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And, since I really enjoy looking on x-tube for fun stuff to put on here… enjoy these shaving vids:

Not that I encourage guys to play with themselves, as most of the men I know don’t seem to need the encouragement; they seem to always have their hands on their crotches or down their pants, making those oh-so necessary minor adjustments or as I like to call it, “checking to make sure nothing has runoff since the last time they checked (in the last 5 or so minutes).”

Aside from the borderline recreational self-checking, I do encourage most of my young male friends to sit down sometime and really do a thorough check of their testicles for anything out of the ordinary.  When I was in college, I met one guy each year that had found themselves facing a real nightmare, that of testicular cancer. I remember my sophomore year roommate telling me about it one night when we were trying (valiantly) to use the power of various potent chemical cleaning solutions to get the multi-year layers of grime off the tile shower in our condo. He was rather blase about it, telling me about how he woke up in pain one night and that it had swollen and was sore, and how his doctor lopped it off and sent it to the lab for analysis.  When it came back positive, he got some of his sperm frozen at the local sperm bank and then got his cancer treatment and moved on with his life.  Not shy at all, he and I showered together and he asked if I wanted to see the scar and check it out.  Sexually, it was not at all exciting, but medically, it was of interest to see his lone ball hanging there all by its lonesome, and hold it and look at the scar from where they extracted his malignant one. I asked if his sperm count was at all affected and he smiled and said that it had actually gone up a little, since they lopped off his cancerous one.  He thought it was because his body realized the loss of the bad one and let the other one make up for the loss.

I was reminded of this the other day when 23 year old US Olympic swimmer (and all-around hottie) Eric Shanteau announced that he has testicular cancer.  He is going to delay surgery until after the Olympics, but will have doctors monitoring him to make sure there’s no change in his condition during the interim. I thought, “Geez! Such a young guy!” Then I read that testicular cancer is a cancer that seems to occur with some frequency in young men.

So… if you don’t know how to do a testicular self-exam, click on the link below to find out, because (in the words of GI Joe, “knowing is half the battle”):

http://kidshealth.org/teen/sexual_health/guys/tse.html

So, that pseudo-public service annoucement aside, there’s plenty of other things to do with your testicles for fun too!  I know there are some guys out there that are nearly psychotically sensitive about their balls, almost to the point of not wanting them touched before, during or after any kind of sex.  One of my regular friends, a straight guy whose girlfriend doesn’t enjoy “worshipping his idol” as much as I do mentioned to me during his second time over at my place that he usually didn’t like getting his balls stroked or sucked. Not intentionally, I forgot that he said that, and would alternate lightly sucking and rolling around his balls in my mouth during a few of his subsequent visits.  Amusingly enough, one night I had a flash of memory of him telling me, so I stopped touching them and remarked that I’d forgotten that he didn’t like that.  He looked at me and sort of blushed and said, “well… you’ve sort of turned me on to that now, and I kind of look forward to it.  You do this cool thing with your tongue when you’ve got my balls in your mouth that makes me nearly cum, so I’ve really gotten into it.”  This was the first I’d heard of that particular tongue talent, though I’ve had two of my guy friends remark on it since and have smiled each time. One of my younger guy friends asked me if I had access to either a cock-ring and ball stretcher combo, or just a ball stretcher that he could use when he came over.  Luckily, I had my leather snap cockring on me and spent about 20 minutes demonstrating on him how he could use it as a cockring, or a cock and ball ring, or a ball separator/stretcher.  From my early days of living in DC and going to various “Dungeon Dance” parties, I have a not entirely small cache of leather goods, toys, and more!  Here’s what I recommend for any guys looking to dabble in some ball-play:

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Here’s a bit of show and tell for today’s subject, courtesy of xtube (www.xtube.com). Notice that the guy in the video is wearing two rings, one around the base of his dick and one to pull down his nuts.  Enjoy!:

A lot of guys don’t know that their prostate can be a veritable gold mine for heightened sexual pleasure.  In my own experience, I’ve found that it’s most often the case that straight men are utterly unaware of the potential of this untapped sexual organ in their bodies.

An experience that still makes me smile to this day would be the time that I took a ultra thin vibe to a straight, really horny (”really only looking for a discreet sexual buddy to help me out between visits from my girlfriend.”) 20 year old fraternity guy from the local university.  He really only wanted to get oral, though he did try giving oral once, eventually, even though I kept envisioning scenes from the movie “JAWS” while he was chewing… er… sucking on my dick.  It was about fifteen minutes into his 3rd visit with me that I pulled off his dick and reached into my toy/lube goodie bag (conveniently placed in the bottom shelf of my coffee table next to my sofa) and got out the slim vibe. I pushed his legs back and ate out his ass for a while (straight guys love that… I’ve never heard this guy make lots of noises til I did this, and then he squealed and writhed around like a girl!) After I got him liberally lubed with spit, I spat on the vibe and then slowly worked it into his ass.

Naturally, he protested a little, as straight boys are wont to do, but then those protests suddenly died in his throat as it slid up and banged against his prostate.  I moved the vibe in and out his hole, smacking the end of his against his prostate and began to suck lightly on his dick and then asked him if, now that he’d become accustomed to it, he was OK with the dildo.  He graciously nodded and said it was OK because it was so thin. Yeah… right!

I did notice right away that it took away a lot of his control. Usually this guy could last quite a while with just cocksucking, but when I added the thin vibe, even turned off, it had him tensing up with every up and down motion of my mouth on his cock and in-and-out motion of the vibe.  I stopped and smiled up at him when I started to feel his balls pull up and heard him begin to pant a little.  I asked him if he’d mind if I turned it on as I sucked him. He sort of nodded with that glazed “turn what on?!?” look on his face.

So, I went back to paying some oral attention to his dick and then pushed the vibe in and held it still against his prostate as my other hand twisted the bottom of it, turning it on. The effect was immediate.  He bucked his hips up so hard that his dick slammed so far down my throat that it nearly ended up in my lung and he began to make this interesting “ahh.. ahhh… ahhhhh!” noise.  I picked up the tempo of my sucking (not that I needed to), and about a minute later he completely tensed up and shrieked as his dick exploded in the back of my mouth.  Now, this guy had some good orgasms usually, but this one was the cum shot equivalent of having a water gun go off again and again and again inside your mouth.  His dick ejaculated so hard that I could feel it pounding against my tonsils and uvula.

The best part was that I kept sucking and he seemed to keep cumming.  His orgasm must have lasted nearly a minute.  He was dripping with sweat at the end of it and was making that part-huff, part-pant, part-low grunt noise that you usually don’t hear until after you busted your ass sprinting during a race.  I toggled off the vibe and then licked off the remaining drops of cum from the tip of his dick, then ducked into the bathroom to get him a half-moist, half-dry towel to use to clean up and dry off.

When I brought it back to the room, he was still laying there, breathing heavily, with this really odd glazed look in his eyes.  I asked if he was OK and he sort of looked up at me and shook his head.  He said he was having problems getting his eyes to focus.  I tried not to laugh and proceeded to help him clean up.

Afterward, he said that he’d never had such an intense orgasm and that he wished he could go more than once every hour or so because he wanted to have another.  I offered to let him stay for a bit, but he had a test in one of his early classes and had to head back to his dorm.  He came back two nights later though, but that’s another story.

So after some testing of vibes that are really tailored to men, I’ve come across some really nice ones that really work wonders.  If you’re looking for male-specific vibes, my suggestions are:

	Nexus Vibro White With its ribbed shaft, the Nexus Vibro stimulates the entire anal canal during prostate massage and the ball bearing takes male g-spot experience to a new level. Yes, it vibrates the prostate! It is the first of its kind in the world to do so, with its own long-life Prostate Bullet. The Nexus Vibro is a multi-talented Nexus prostate massager, with ball bearings, ribs, and a motor to keep you going way past bedtime. With a bit more of a bend in the shaft of the prostate massager, the Nexus Vibro presses more firmly on the prostate, and gets right in there to give you jaw dropping, monstrously deep, hard and funky male g-spot orgasms that stem from deep inside. Click Here To Read More About It Or To Buy It Now
	Aneros MGX Newly redesigned, the MGX is a medically researched and designed to work in harmony with your body’s own movements. Stimulates both the prostate and the perineum in a rhythmic motion that builds up to unprecedented male orgasms. Easy to use and fulfilling for both the beginner and the expert, with progressively rewarding exercises and experiences. Made from FDA approved materials. Click Here To Read More About It Or To Buy It Now
	The BGee Vibe This is the one I actually used on the fraternity boy in the aforementioned post. While it’s not male specific like the other two I picked, it’s fairly inexpensive and the bend it has can obviously work well for both men and women, when used correctly.  I have other vibes for other guys, but for the straight-curious men, I usually like to start out with something like this that is fairly thin and easy to take. Once they’ve tried this, they usually end up trying other vibes in bigger sizes to see what they feel like. Click Here To Read More About It Or Buy It Now.

Here’s a few interesting x-tube movies of guys using their aneros-esque toys.  The second one sort of caught my eye and made me think, “wow… he seems to be really REALLY REALLY enjoying himself there!”